I have a couple of kids who were trained to go potty quickly, each in one three day weekend. This is all due to my wife, who found this book, “Potty Training in 3 Days” by Brandi Brucks. One kid was a little over 2 years old when she learned, and one was a little under 3. It’s a quick read.
The key is to not start the book until they actually ask to start using the potty. And by potty, I mean the actual toilet. The book goes into additional signs of readiness: diapers start to be dry, they follow simple directions, they want to wear real underwear, etc.
The rewards we chose were lots of praise and peanut butter M&M’s, in a special container we got from Costco Business Center. Within 6 months of learning, each only had one accident. Each time they were on their way to the bathroom and didn’t get there in time. We’ve saved a bunch of money on diapers and built each child’s confidence.
I give my wife all the credit – she did the actual training on the floor in the bathroom for large portions of the 3 day weekends. All I had to do was work and watch the other kid.
One of many memorable moments in Madrid came when we happened across this street artist posing with his mud-encrusted motorbike:
The man is in this position for hours, but it’s a bit easier than it looks: he’s actually lying down on a long pole hidden under his jacket.
My young daughter was so entranced by this display, we can now tell her to “do the moto”, and she leaps up on a stool and lifts her feet up in the air, almost like this man is doing. She can hold it for almost half a minute!
Our oldest child was a bit developmentally delayed in learning to walk. She could stand and cruise along furniture, but she wasn’t confident walking more than a few steps on her own. We decided to hire a physical therapist to come to our home and help her out.
What we didn’t expect is the therapist would actually be teaching us how to help our daughter. We did about 95% of the physical therapy ourselves with tips from the therapist, and the therapist did the other 5%, plus evaluations.
I wanted to share one huge tip from the therapist that worked great for our child:
- Find something your child really enjoys doing. In our daughter’s case, it was being read to – she loves hearing a story, pointing out objects and characters, and especially – turning pages.
- Get your child to participate in her favorite thing standing up. In this case, we read from a standing position, three feet away.
- Ensure she is standing with support behind her. Support meaning a couch, or a wall.
- Gently encourage her to step forward or to the side, to challenge her balance. Ask her step forward and turn the page. After she accomplishes that, hold the book a little further away from her, and ask her to step forward a couple more steps to turn to the next page.
We did this every night before bed for a few nights and she was walking on her own almost immediately! She was so very proud of herself, smiling and laughing.
The book we read was Walk On!: A Guide for Babies of All Ages, by Marla Frazee. Our child loves this book, and shouts “BABY YOU’RE WALKING! BEA-UTI-FULLLLL!” right from the story as she excitedly toddles around the house. It also teaches how to fall and get back up again, no fuss, no muss.
Bonus tip: If your child only wants to hold your hand while walking, and refuses to move without your hand: Progress to letting her hold only a finger. Then progress from just a finger to holding a shared object, such as a stuffed animal, spatula, or umbrella. She will be walking in no time.